Barbara Chesser in her book, Because You Care, begins chapter one with the simple admonition: “Be There.” Although Job’s friends are often criticized for their lack of theological understanding, their bad advice, and their outright misrepresentation of God; at least they cared.
How much do you care when you see a friend struggling, suffering, going through a rough time, or just needing some encouragement? Job’s friends after having heard of Job’s plight immediately got together and went to see Job. They took serious the task of “Being There.” The purpose of their visit was to comfort, console, encourage and give hope.
Upon seeing Job, the Bible says he was so bad that they scarcely recognized him, they began wailing loudly, tore their robes and threw dust into the air. It was a sign of their personal grief over the struggles of their friend. They sympathized with his sufferings and expressed it. An interesting response was their silence. Instead of trying to answer all the questions at once, or comfort with words, they simply sat in silence. Have you ever stayed away because you didn’t know what to say? Maybe silence says more than your words. His suffering was too great for words. Just “Being There” may be the best comfort you could give.
Find someone today who is hurting and just “Be There” for them. It might just be what they need the most.
______________Today's personal note from Dennis
Greetings from Tempe, AZ,
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