You may remember the story of the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32) who took his inheritance early, left home, squandered it on all the wrong things, discovered himself in a pigpen eating slop, and decided to repent and go back home to his father. Of course the story is of sin and its damage and the way back to God through repentance and faith.
The other person in this story is the elder brother who was at home all the time and was terribly upset by the father’s acceptance of the younger, rebellious son who had returned. Three things that can destroy your life even when you are in the presence of the Father exemplified in the life of the elder brother are anger, a negative complaining attitude, and an inability to let go. You may struggle with these kinds of feelings.
First, let me suggest that you choose to forgive.
Ephesians 4:32
32 And be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you. (NAS)
Forgiveness is a choice to not take into consideration what has happened in the past or existing in the present. The only reason to not forgive is vengeance and that is God’s job.
Secondly, a negative critical attitude never gave anyone a fulfilling life. You are admonished in Philippians 4:8 after a list of positive comments: to “dwell on these things.” What you think about and toward people determines how you feel, not how they feel.
Lastly, let it go. The elder brother couldn’t let go of the situation. He was angry and negative because he was unwilling to let the past go. You may be bound today in something from the past. Forgive, be positive and let it go. It is not worth destroying your own life no matter what happened in the past.
I hope you find purpose for your life today as you grow in Christ. May God bless you as your spiritual life prospers in Jesus.
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